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Delete June 17, 2011

Posted by caralally in Relationships.
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Talking to a friend today, the topic of an ex/ex-friend came up. This, in turn, brought up the subject of Facebook, and how hard it can be to press that “delete as friend” button.  We talked about it for a few moments, before I realised just how odd our lives have become, in regard to social networking. For fear of upsetting ourselves, or someone we don’t even like any more, we (well, some of us) find it very hard to delete someone from our Facebook.

If you break up with someone, do you remain friends with them? Depends on the break up, of course, but in my experience, so far, staying friends is just near impossible. For me, staying friends with my ex’s (exes, exs??) in pre-Facebook days was hard enough. Seeing the person you were with out with another can be heart wrenching. Up until 2 years or so ago, I fooled myself into thinking it was entirely possible. After my third attempt at a relationship with a very close friend, I realised, No, enough! Staying friends afterwards just kept the door open for going back into a situation that clearly was not working.

Luckily, most guys I went out with repel technology, so my Bebo (Yes, Beb0!) stalking moments went unfulfilled. But I can see the potential for insanity while checking out pages. Especially if it was you who was the dumpee. Checking where they’ve been, who are they friends with, who is that in the picture with him… At least on Bebo, your every move was not available to your friends. Facebook, on the other hand, is just insane! If you have mutual friends, you can find out just about everything.  We all love a good nose about what other people are up to, but add a romantic history there, with some unresolved feelings, and you’ve got a good recipe for obsession. An obsession that the person being watched has not got a clue of.

Obviously, this is not the case for everyone! Not everyone is only a couple of steps away from crazy. There are people out there that have no problem being friends with their ex. As I said earlier, it depends on your situation. But whatever way you look at it, 98% of the time*, one person is going to be still hung up on the other. By taking the initial step and deleting, perhaps you are freeing yourself up from days/weeks/months of prolonged pain, if not for you, then your severed other half. Who wants to log online someday, feeling shitty from work or something, and see a tagged photo of them shifting the face off someone in a club?  I’d rather believe they are heartbroken and crying into their pillow every night, thank you very much!

*That percentage is completely made up.

Happy Happy Thoughts May 7, 2011

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Happiness is not having what you want. It is wanting what you have. ~ Unknown

Everyone has their days where everything just goes wrong, the world is against us and we want to curl up under our duvet and pray it goes away. Some people have these days more than others. I have had my fair share of these days, and I’m pretty sure I’ll have many more.
As of late, I have been trying my hardest to focus on all the positives in my life, to make me realise that Hey, life ain’t so bad! I compiled a list of all the good and great things in my life, and it really helps to pull me out of the darkness that sometimes looms.

My list is simple and pretty straightforward. Having these written down makes me see much clearer.

1. I have a wonderful mother, father and brother , whom I love so much, and would do anything for them.
2. I have a fantastic boyfriend, who works hard and cares for me.
3. I have six close friends, whom I would trust with my life.
4. I live in a warm, comfortable house, which has beautiful stone features (something I’ve always wanted).
5. I have a part-time job that gives me access to concerts and events.
6. I am generally very healthy, and am working towards making myself fitter.
7. I have food in my kitchen, fuel for my fire and two wardrobes, crammed with clothes.
8. I have a great doctor, whom I can talk to about anything.
9. I have been in love, been loved, am in love and have love.
10. I am only 23 and I have fantastic memories already.

I realise how lucky I am to have these things, and not a day goes by where I don’t appreciate them at some point.

Useless Skills March 21, 2011

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Today is an extremely hungover day. I had a family wedding on Friday and then a liquidation sale, in my local, last night. I am not able to function properly at all! So it’s a nice and easy blog post :-) Over the weekend, I was reading on a forum about useless skills that we possess. It made me realise I have quite a catalogue of completely, utterly, useless skills. I’m going to share these with you and would love for you to share yours with me!

1. I can control my Tensor Tympani muscle. This is something I thought everyone could do, but I was wrong! I am now fascinated that when people yawn, they can still hear around them. The rumbling noise muffles all outside noise for me.

2. I can wiggle my ears. A proper, full on wiggle of the upper ear, left and right, without moving any other body part.

3. I can voluntarily blur my vision. Another thing I thought everyone could do, but asking around, found a few friends who couldn’t. I can also rapidly move my eyes from side to side, I look like I’m having a seizure.

4. I can flex my nostrils.

5. I can roll my tongue. I learnt, years ago, that this is a (kind of) genetic thing. I had a friend who couldn’t do this. Hilarious watching her try!

6. I can click my left thumb.

7. I can imitate the Vulcan salute, straight off. Another one that gives me some amusement while watching people struggle to do it. .

8. I can cross my eyes

9. I can flex my boobs like a body builder flexes his/her chest.

10. I am right handed. When I write with my left hand, I write in perfect mirror writing style. It’s messy, as my hand is untrained, but every letter is perfectly backwards

Clearly, it is a slow news day in my life…

A Farmer’s Life For Me? March 1, 2011

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All my life, I have been surrounded by the farming industry, what with living in the countryside and all. But, my family was definitely not made of farmers. So, I never actually fully experienced the farming life. I don’t think I ever even sat in a tractor up until a few years back, and drove one for the first time last year! As a child, my one wish was to marry a farmer, so I could fulfill my dream of having lots of horses. Yea, be careful what you wish for, they say!

Colm and I are together almost two years now. When we first started dating, he didn’t really work on the farm, except for emergencies. He works with farm machinery, so he always had a high interest in the farm, and I got dragged around many agricultural shows, staring at tractors, slurry tanks, agitators etc. I knew he always had a love for the land, and he’s ream of stories of his childhood, helping out with everything. Unfortunately, it was following the sudden and unexpected death of his father, in September, that threw him back in to farming with absolutely no choice. One day, we were your average couple, just moved in together, the next day, we were trying to sort out what sheep were where, where the area maps were, and of course, deal with what had just happened. http://www.herald.ie/national-news/city-news/dadof2-killed-by-swarm-of-wasps-2354434.html

I’ll be completely honest and tell you I am a creature who loves her comfort. I like to be warm, dry and preferably not running after a sheep. So, to be thrown in to a lifestyle I had always watched from the outside and never desired (bar that damn wish as a child!), was quite a change for me. I went into it as best I could, embracing it, whilst bitching about it at any given opportunity to my friends. Ironically, my best friend, who is even more a lady of leisure than me, also landed herself a farmer. We were a right pair, a few years back, before settling down. Being matched with farmers was the last thing we ever saw coming!

Sorry, sidetracked. So, embracing the farm. I decked myself out in funky wellies and just went with it. My first real encounter with farm work was helping out with the dagging of the sheep. This is not a pleasant experience! My job was to hold the sheep, while Colm chopped away at them. Sheep are a lot stronger than I anticipated!! And since that day, I hate them, hate them with a passion!! Stupid, heavy, ignorant, teeth-grinding, toe-stepping sheep. Baaaaaa!!! I decided quickly that I preferred the bovine animals on the farm. They have more character, are more interesting, and seem to be easier to manage. But, alas, they too come with their disadvantages. Being near a cow while it sneezes is not a good idea! Actually, being near one when anything is leaving its body is just not good.

I don’t visit the farm as regularly as I should. The only reason I really go out there, is to just spend time with himself. With him working full time and the farm, it’s very hard to get quality time together. We’re currently trying to figure out something that I could take on, as a hobby, on the farm. Preferably, something I could earn from  Pigs, turkeys, chickens… just not sure. Until then, I’m just helping out where I can. Tomorrow, I’m helping with the beloved sheep again. Injection time!

Could You Do It? March 28, 2009

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The Kenny Gallery building on Main Street/ Middle Street, Galway, is possibly one of the most loved landmarks of the West, and was home to, possibly, the countrys most famous bookstore. Unfortunately, for economic reasons, the gallery shut down earlier this year and was moved out to the Tuam Road to where the bookstores online warehouse is. I worked in the gallery on High Street last year for six months, and the building is amazing, a large tourist attraction with features that date back to the middle ages in the basement.

So when I heard that i102-104, the west/northwests newest radio station, was setting up a home for people in the windows of this central, famous building, I was intrigued.

I could not be exact about when I first heard about this new competition. Already I had been impressed with i102-104′s competition last year, which caused slight mania in the west/northwest. It was basically a race, to find the “thief”. This thief was just some average guy, wandering around a street in a town. During the day, clues would be given as to where this thief was located, and I’m sure hundreds of clueless strangers in Galway, Roscommon, Ballinasloe, Sligo etc., had people running up to them, shouting the winning phrase”Are you the i102-104 thief??” The prize? Amounts of cash that changed daily, with figures in their thousands. Here’s a report from The Leitrim Observer

So the Indecent Proposal? Basically, people were given the question of would you and your other half be willing to live in a shop window for a week, with no shower, no privacy, no contact with friends or family (except through the glass), no mobiles, etc etc. In order to be selected, you would have to earn your place by completing a number of tasks around Galway city. These tasks included being giving a list of items to somehow obtain, with no money. These items included the usual – Vibrators, condoms etc. I wasn’t listening from when these tasks were done, but I’d love to know how they got around the shop owners… “If you don’t give me the vibrator, my Gran will go blind!” Don’t think so…

On Friday just gone, the final two couples to be in the window were to be selected on Eyre Square. This was to follow a moment where everybody in Eyre Square was to strip to the under garments. (I swear, since the crypto contamination in 2007, Galway is cracked!) I was, as it happened, on my way to Galway at this point, only 30mins from all these almost naked people. The traffic was bad so we got to see no flesh. Most upsetting. We were listening intently as the names were being announced as to who would be entering the Indecent Proposal rooms. There were four finalising couples, each wanting a go at winning the 30,000Euro worth of prizes. A sudden twist happened – all four couples were selected! The Kenny Gallery looks out on High Street and also Middle Street. Two rooms had been set up for the couples, two couples in each room. The judges of the competition couldn’t decide on who to chose. So they didn’t! Big Brother style, two couples will be evicted on this coming Monday. As they made their way down the street the couples were accompanied by over a thousand observers. Shortly after the doors were locked behind them, another twist was given – the couples were being mixed.

I feel this will be a very trying weekend on the relationships!

Today they went their first public indecent proposal in the windows. The guys had to pose as the figure of David whilst the girls modelled their image in clay. You can look here i102-104 Indecent Proposal to see them live in the windows. There’s no sound, but there are regular updates of what they get up to.

I know I couldn’t do it. Could you?

Will you be participating? March 26, 2009

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Earth Hour is taking place this Saturday, March 28th and will start at 8.30pm local time. It’s a fantastic idea and been running since 2007. So many cities across the globe are taking part, with buildings such as The Empire State Building, The Petronis Towers, The Great Pyramids of Giza and The Lourve will be blacking out in the sake of out planet.

Saving as much resources as we can is a very important issue, an issue that still does not hit home with so many people. Simple things, like turning your television fully off instead of standby, make a difference. It makes a difference to your carbon footprint, as well as your next delightful electricity bill. Save money, save the planet :-)

Go to Earth Hour Website and vote EARTH. The aim is to reach one billion votes, which will then be presented to the world leaders at the Global Climate Change Conference in Copenhagen. This meeting is to determine official global policies to take action against global warming, which will replace the Kyoto Protocol

We can all make a difference!

Chilling… March 26, 2009

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One of my favourite songs, something about it just really gets to me. It’s by Imogen Heap, and is called “Hide and Seek”.

I feel it’s a love or hate song. I hope you love it too :-)

First blog of the year March 25, 2009

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So I’ve finally gotten around to starting a new blog. I had one over a year ago for a college event I was part of, Shorts and Giggles . I always kept meaning to update it and start again, but it took until now, when I have ran out of ways to put off college assignments, to do it!

I was advised to use wordpress over blogspot. I can’t actually remember the reasons why (story of my life!) but the source is usually quite reliable when it comes to all things technology and Internet related.

I’m currently being the worlds greatest procrastinator. I was already superb at doing this, but as of late I have found myself really excelling in it. It was beginning to worry me quite a lot, as I was also finding myself unnaturally tired and un-motivated. I had suffered previously from low iron levels so I had some tests done a few months ago. It turns out I’m suffering from an under active thyroid. So it’s good to know I actually have something to blame my procrastination on! If you care to read more about under active and over-active thyroid, here’s a link to VHI website explaining it and its symptoms.

As a result I have been more susceptible to illness and infection. It really is a damn nasty thing to have, but in a few weeks it will hopefully under control.

On a brighter note, I finish my four years of college this year. I currently study in IADT Dun Laoghaire , doing a BA in Business Studies and Arts Management. I love the course, but really am finding this year a struggle. There’s just so much going on everywhere, it’s very hard to maintain a focus and apply oneself. It was especially hard in September, as we had come back from six months of work experience and three months of Summer holidays. I don’t think most of us got back into a proper routine since! Apparently they’re changing the course layout next year. With the course still relatively new, I suppose there will be continuous changes throughout. I’m not sure if there is a way of improving the transition from work experience to forth year, but I do feel there are certain subjects that should have been taught in previous years, not the final year.

Anywho, I feel it’s time for some tea. I will continue with this and I will make it more structured. Promise :-)

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